Book Club: Gone Girl

This is my first book club post! I have briefly mentioned this in a previous post, but I will say it again: I am participating in a book club hosted by Bonnie at The Life of Bon. On her blog there is a book to read every month, and on the last Wednesday of the month participants write about what they read.

The February book was Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn

Brief synopsis via Library Journal: Amy disappears on her fifth wedding anniversary, and while Nick has not been a model husband, could he really have killed her? It’s soon evident that if Amy is dead, that’s the least of the reader’s worries.

****Warning: Possible Spoilers Ahead!****

As soon as I started this book, I could not put it down. I am reading other bloggers’ reviews of Gone Girl, and many are saying “The first half was pretty slow and hard to get through, but things really got going for the last half. My experience was pretty different. I found the whole book exciting, and none of it “slow” at all.

The characters – I pretty much hated most of the main characters. Amy is a conniving sociopath who will do anything – literally, anything – to get her way. Nick, her husband, is lazy and, at times, callous. Amy’s parents hold their daughter to impossible standards. Nick’s dad is misogynistic. Desi was just…ugh *eye roll* Almost all of Desi’s actions made me want to puke.

The only character I really liked was Margo, also known as “Go,” Nick’s sister. She was the only one who seemed to have any sense left in them. However, it kind of bugged me that she went by “Go.” Every time I read something where Go was mentioned, I would think “‘Go’ is a verb, not a name!”

The theme of marriage – Marriage, its high points, its low points, the deterioration of marriage – these were all big themes in the book. And, since I am not married, maybe they were parts that I could not relate to on the level that a married person might be able to. But…yeah, Gone Girl does NOT paint a rosy picture of marriage. Hah.

The profanity – I want to respond to something that Bon said on her book club blog post:

“My question is this- do people really use the f word that often? … Drug dealers and addicts and gang members I am sure use the f word as freely as they please.  But in Gone Girl the characters are none of those things.  They are society contributing, responsible, educated adults.  I get that people who are raised on the streets and uneducated are going to use the f word like it’s nobody’s business.  But educated people?  Lawyers and writers and your good old average joe on the street?  I live in a conservative community and I come from a conservative state, so this one honestly just confuses me.  Did you see the amount of f words in Gone Girl as an accurate representation of how often most responsible, educated adults in our country use the f word?”

I have been around educated adults who use colorful language, and that includes the occasional F-bomb. A couple of professors I have had have, at times, used unsavory language in the presence of their students. Maybe this is a regional thing, I don’t know. But I think the abundance of “F words” in this book is because of the bizzarre circumstances that are occurring. I’m not saying it’s right, but I find it more understandable that characters would say the F word a lot if they’re in the middle of a possible kidnap-murder situation.

So, I don’t think the amount of F words used in Gone Girl are an accurate representation of how often most responsible, educated adults in our country use the F word – because most responsible, educated adults are not dealing with having been framed for murder!

Or maybe I just have a high threshold for profanity. I mean, Reservoir Dogs is my favorite movie…

The ending – I already gave a spoiler alert, but in case anyone ignored that and kept reading I’m not going to give away the end to you. But I WILL say that if you like justice, you probably won’t like the ending. When I read the last line and closed the book, I was scratching my head, thinking “Hmm…really?”

Overall verdict – So far I have told you that I disliked many of the characters, couldn’t relate to the talk of marriage and was not satisfied with the ending. It may sound like I didn’t enjoy this book, but I did. I really, really did. It was exciting and unpredictable. I think the fact that I hated the characters and yet thoroughly enjoyed the book is a testament to how talented of a writer Gillian Flynn is. She has two other books besides Gone Girl, and they are on my reading list now.

Word and Film gave this great description of the novel that I whole-heartedly agree with: “Gone Girl resonates so deeply because of Flynn’s rare emotional intelligence combined with her of-the-moment subject matter that informs every page of her story of two thirty-somethings grappling with a double-dose of disillusionment at the shoddy state of their five-year-old marriage run aground on the post-infatuation shoals of boredom and selfishness. This is all happening in the wake of watching their careers vaporize after being laid off from newly extinct jobs writing for magazines.”

Thus concludes my two cents on Gone Girl. March’s book is The Fault in Our Stars by John Green. I went out and bought it today, and I’ll be starting on it tonight! My next book club post will be March 27.

Coffee and Books!

Alternate title for this post: “Caffeinated and educated.”

I wanted to put 19 more exclamation points in the post title because I am oh-so excited about this subject. But I figured that amount od punctuation would maybe be overkill. Maybe.

Coffee and books are two of my most favorite things in the world. And if I can combine my loves by drinking coffee and reading a book, well then, I’m happy as a clam. (“Happy as a clam”…isn’t that a weird phrase? I was curious so I Googled it and found this. Interesting).

Thankfully, in between my current paper writing, CrossFitting and napping, I have fit in some time to either drink coffee or read a book. Sometimes simultaneously. This, I swear, keeps me sane.

So I will tell you all about what I’m drinking and what I’m reading. I’ve included some hipster-tastic Instagram shots to help illustrate (follow me on Instagram, people! I need more accounts to follow).

Coffee

My relationship (dependent relationship…) with coffee began the way many people’s relationship with coffee begins: in college. Pulling all-nighters, making deadlines and curing headaches just became easier to deal with when coffee was involved.

Today, I enjoy coffee in all its forms – Iced coffee, drip coffee, espresso, etc. At Halcyon in Austin, I once had a Long Island Iced Coffee. Holy crap. Favorite mixed drink ever.

For Christmas, my parents gave me a Keurig coffee maker. Perfect gift for a budding coffee connoisseur like myself. I have used it almost every day since I opened it!

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I have been trying several different blends, which come in cute little K-cups, as they’re called. My recent favorites are Caribou Coffee Caribou blend, Green Mountain coffee Golden French Toast (SO. GOOD! OMG) and Starbucks Veranda blend.

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Home-brewed coffee is great. But occasionally I feel like going to a coffee shop and getting some barista-made espresso, complete with latte art. Denton has several independently-owned coffee shops, and each of them are awesome – funky, eclectic, and most importantly the drinks are delicious (at all of them, seriously!).

Above is a sugar-free cappuccino I got from Big Mike’s, which is probably my favorite coffee shop in Denton. It’s right off the edge of the UNT campus, and each espresso drink is automatically made with two espresso shots – no extra charge! This particular day, I went to Big Mike’s to do homework. Espresso always makes homework more bearable.

Books

The first book I will discuss I actually haven’t been reading. I’ve been listening to it as an audiobook. It’s called Columbine, by Dave Cullen.

2013-01-23 11.02.50This book, though it is about a sad subject, is very, very good. I have listened completely through the audiobook twice already.

The author, journalist Dave Cullen, spent 10 years researching and writing the book, beginning on the afternoon of the attack. As far as I know, this is probably the most comprehensive book about the Columbine High School massacre. It answers every “why?” question stemming from the event imaginable.

It delves into the backgrounds of the major people involved with the incident, including but not limited to the killers, victims and law enforcement personell; and follows up to the present day the survivors. There is also a great deal about psychology, including post-traumatic stress disorder, survivor’s remorse and psychopathy.

Cullen attempts to correct several widespread misconceptions that arose from the tragedy. Examples are: the belief that the two killers went bowling the morning of the massacre (not true), Cassie Bernall’s “girl who said yes” story (disputable) and the belief that the killers were bullied “outcasts” who wanted the attack to target jocks and popular kids (one of the killers was actually pretty popular, and they shot indiscriminately, not just at “jocks”).

Perhaps most importantly, he addresses the fact that many people were trying to find one single cause for the shooting. Was it bullying? Violent video games? The music of Marilyn Manson or KMFDM? Everyone wants to lay the blame on someone or something. But the truth is, it’s not that simple. There was no one cause to the tragedy, Cullen concludes. It was a complicated road to Columbine, a road that even after 10 years of extensive research, Cullen still does not completely understand.

While the majority of the book is very sad, there are some uplifting aspects. Most notably, the story of victim Patrick Ireland.

As a journalism student, I was inspired reading (er…listening) to this book. Cullen leaves no stone unturned.

You can watch a pretty good “trailer” for the book featuring Cullen here.

I am actually reading the next book, not listening to an audiobook version of it. I am happy and excited to be participating in a blogger book club hosted by Bonnie at The Life of Bon!

Based on a poll she gave to her readers, Bonnie chose 11 books for the club to read for the remaining months of the year. At the end of the month, we will have a riveting conversation about the book on Bonnie’s blog. And of course, I’ll be posting about it here. The full list of books and more details are at this post.

I rarely read nonfiction books, and I rarely read just for fun. So I think I will enjoy setting time aside to participate in this book club.

I just began reading the February book two days ago; and oh…my…God… Already, I cannot put it down.

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The book is Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn. So far I would describe it as a mystery/drama. I don’t think that, upon first glance, this is a book I would have chosen for myself to read – so I’m extra glad that I joined the book club, because otherwise I probably would not have picked this book up!

As you can see, January has been a month of good coffee and good books. I’m going to try my best to make February include plenty coffee and books, too 😉

Oh, by the way…I have an INTERNSHIP INTERVIEW in the morning! It’s over the phone. I’ll disclose more information on said internship later…I hope I’m not jinxing my chances by blogging about it ahead of time. But I’m so excited, I just had to share!

Keep your fingers crossed for me 🙂